Margaret's story starts on November 16, 1948, when she was born in Sydney to parents Ray and Reta McCulloch.
She spent most of her childhood in Tasmania before moving to Melbourne for University. At 22 Margaret married her first husband Brian Candler and moved to Canberra. They eventually seperated, and in her late twenties Margaret went on to meet her future husband Dennis and his children Sean, Andrew and Fiona.
They married soon after and traveled around Europe before Alison arrived in 1980 and Ross in 1985. Margaret worked as a teacher before joining the Department of Education, working on education policy. Margaret and Dennis made the family home in Lyons for more than 30 years, before moving to O'Connor in 2014.
In later life Margaret engaged with her love of French language through the Alliance, and also founded Pain Support ACT to help people with chronic pain. She loved being 'Grandmarg' to all her grandchildren.
Margaret is loved by family and friends alike. She will be missed and always remembered. We invite you to help keep her story alive by sharing a memory or reflection.
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A young Margaret after graduating from Monash University.
Margaret and Dennis were married in a small ceremony on the grounds of the ANU, attended by family and close friends. You can see Margret Holmes on the left, Margaret's close friend, and Fiona and Sean McLennan on the right.
This photo shows a newly married Margaret and Dennis very much in love, in France.
This photo shows Margaret enjoying time with baby Alison.
This photo shows the immediate family all together, with a newly arrived Ross.
We had many get togethers with Margaret and Dennis and Jackie and John Anderson over the years. One very “significant” occasion happened during a lunch with the newly born , yet unnamed baby boy asleep in his pram beside the table. After much discussion a mutual decision was reached. The boy would be named Ross.
Ann
I met Margaret when I was a student teacher at Canberra High School in 1977. She was the school union rep and I asked her whether I could join the union. So we got off to a good start and soon became friends. Over the next nearly 50 years Ann and I have enjoyed many great times with her and Dennis and their family. She was a lovely friend and I will miss her greatly.
Mick Fogarty
Myself (Carolyn) and sister Suzanne were neighbours for years, there was just one house and a little park between us. Alison and Suz were in the same class and were almost instantly friends. Myself being a few years younger was sometimes a little uncool to my big sister but Alison and Margret always made me feel welcome. Sometimes I'd pop by unannounced and Margret would welcome me (even when she'd probably have preferred a phone call). I recall feeling very safe there and Margret and Denis would diligently watch our performances of fashion shows, dancing and likely terrible singing too. Sometimes we'd convince Ross to join, or possibly allow it - perhaps it was training for play with his daughters? :).
I recall Margret being a caring soul. One day when she was collecting us girls from dancing, Margret noticed that I was a bit avoidant of listening to the teacher. She advised with kindness to my mother to send me to a place with more discipline. My mum sent me to a classic dance school after that and it was such a great outcome for me.
We will miss you Margret. Love the Bigg girls.
These photos represent a little piece of the year 1997, when I lived with the McLennan family. I was welcomed and embraced as part of the family. I will never forget the kindness and care you all showed me, especially Margaret.
Thank you, everyone, for 1997 and for everything you did for me.
Love,
Vinny
I’m blessed to have known Marg for the past 15 years, from preparations leading up to the first meeting from which Pain Support ACT started. Marg's friendship and hospitality remains dear in my heart. I had marked in my diary to ring Marg to catch up when I was to be in Canberra for appointments next month. Sadly, it wasn't to be. My condolences to Dennis and all the family.
Photos: 2014 ACT Volunteer of the Year for Community Service; Finalist in the 2019 Lifeline Canberra Women of Spirit Awards.
The Tribute below expands on Marg’s involvement in supporting others, and her chronic pain advocacy work.
Margaret McCulloch, known to many as Marg, was a dynamic, dedicated, generous woman. For many years she had searched in vain to find information and support locally for her persistent (chronic) pain, so in mid-2010 she advertised for expressions of interest for a community support group. This is when I met Marg, and we worked together planning an inaugural meeting in October 2010. Pain Support ACT (PSACT) was the outcome: a monthly group to gather to share information and resources. Marg was elected President, and her supportive and caring husband Dennis, along with a small group of other people with a variety of skills, was on the very active Committee.
For the PSACT meetings, Marg arranged talks by professionals from varying disciplines – some on chronic pain, while other talks were about related medical conditions that can arise from compromised health.
Marg was soon advocating through Arthritis ACT, Chronic Pain Australia (CPA), Australian Pain Management Association (APMA), Health Care Consumer’s Association (HCCA), Australian Clinical Innovation (ACI), and PainAustralia.
Even though at times her chronic pain intensified, Marg remained focussed on her goal, and was soon liaising with the ACT medical and allied health industry, as well as the ACT and Federal governments.
Marg was instrumental in the ACT being involved in National Pain Week, and she participated in symposiums and conferences on chronic pain. Marg and PSACT were listed as “Participants of the Citizen Engagement Event Development of ACT Chronic Disease Strategy 2012”
Successful submissions were made to the Australian Medical Council’s 2012 assessment of the education and training program & professional development program; and to ACT Health. The latter resulted in the inclusion of chronic pain for the first time in ACT Health history in the ACT Government Health Department’s ACT Chronic Conditions Strategy — Improving Care and Support 2013-2018. Pain Support ACT was mentioned in the list of resources as a condition specific group.
Marg stepped down as President at the same time as ACT Self-Help Organisations United Together (SHOUT), to which PSACT was a member, closed down in 2017. PSACT, to guarantee its continuation moved under the umbrella of Arthritis ACT. Marg took on an advisory role as Arthritis ACT Board member, until increasing ill-health a couple of years ago.
This is only a small description of the tireless work Marg undertook over the past 16 years. The continued success of Pain Support ACT as a support, information, and advocacy group is her legacy to the people of Canberra and beyond.
Vale Margaret McCulloch – you will be missed.
Some lovely flowers for Margaret's birthday in 2023, in the garden at O'Connor.
A wonderful time of sun, laughter and family
My sincere condolences to Margaret’s family.
Margaret was a lovely student and I cherish the fond memories of her enthusiasm in learning French and the kind person she was .
Stéphanie, her teacher
at Alliance française.
Sending your all Margaret's family and friends derp condolences. She was a wonderful human being and demonstrated kindness, grace and wisdom. She will be missed.
I am unendingly thankful to Margaret for making Ross my oldest friend. In the face of what I hear was significant protest, she told little Ross that he had to have the new kid over for a playdate when I arrived in year 4, Hughes primary school. Later, when scared and unable to sleep while staying over at their Lyons home, terrified of a 'door', high in the wall of Ross's room, leading to who knows where (just a storage space I believe), and with Ross snoring, she rubbed my back and sat with me until I fell alseep. She was a kind and beautiful person, ever missed.
My Margaret
A radiant smile
brilliant blue eyes
Gentle but strong
Loving and caring
Elegant but restrained
Rational and Analytical
Artistic and creative
Meticulous and precise
A multifaceted jewel
Of unplumbed depths
and wonderful delights
Memories
So many memories
How to set out
Her time with me
Surely cathartic
And so pervasive
In my very bones
I would that
I deserved her more
I was so fortunate
To be so blessed
She gave so much
And will be missed
By many
I did my best
To care for her
But am left feeling
Not quite good enough
She deserved so much
And asked so little
Gone
But not forgotten
There really are no words that could convey the magnitude or impact of this loss to our family.
I called Margaret my "special mother" rather than stepmother.
She was indeed a very special, rare woman.
On the surface so calm and pleasant.
Yet those who knew her well knew she had a fine, sharp mind and a fiery spirit when she saw injustice.
In response to the years Margaret suffered chronic pain and all the injustice around it ~ she became an advocate for all who suffered.
It was my good fortune to have Margaret as my special mother.
Margaret and Dad loved to travel together ~ as they did all things together.
The photos I have shared are from their last journey to Western Australia to spend time with this side of the family.
It is how I will remember Margaret.
Full of life and love and family.
No more pain now.
Rest in peace Margaret.
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A celebration Margaret's life will be held at the National Arboretum Margaret Whitlam pavilion on Sunday 3rd May. The doors will be open from 1:00pm, with formalities commencing at 1:30pm.
Tea, coffee and afternoon tea will be provided following the ceremony.
Parking is limited at the pavilion itself, so attendees are recommended to park at the main Arboretum car park and walk across.
Please wear whatever you feel comfortable in, no need for black attire.