Eric (Ric) Joseph Lloyd was born in Croydon, England to parents George and Ruby. At the age of five, Ric moved to Australia with his parents and older siblings Janet and David. He attended Marion High and studied Medicine at The University of Adelaide (from 1962 to 1969). During his residency at Queen Elizabeth Hospital he met and married his beloved wife Mary - a loving marriage of 55 years. Ric became a father to Ben, Kate and Sarah-Jane.
Ric was thoughtful and kind, always willing to help and care for others. He showed a strong commitment to his extended family and friends.
During his career as a Medical Doctor, Ric worked and travelled widely both in Australia and overseas. He was a Medical Officer/Regional Director for the Commonwealth Government with postings to former Yugoslavia, Malaysia and Thailand, later returning to live in Sydney, Brisbane and Darwin.
After 'retiring' in 1999, he and Mary continued their humanitarian work with UNHCR, in Macedonia with Kosovar refugees and in Darwin with East Timorese refugees. Between 2000 and 2004, Ric and Mary moved to Papua New Guinea with PALMS/Catholic Church Health Services. Where they ran a six-bed maternity, medical and tuberculosis ward in Timbunke, taking clinics along the Sepik River.
Back in Adelaide, Ric spent much of his time taking long walks, reading and enjoyed practicing meditation. His greatest joy was spending time with his grandkids.
Throughout his life Ric practiced kindness and simplicity. He valued compassion and acceptance. Ric passed away peacefully at home surrounded by family. His wishes were to be cremated with no funeral service.
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Thank you for your message. It means a lot to comfort families and to keep the memory of Ric alive.
Will always remember the times at the beach, the Skeleton in the Rumpus room, the Austin A30, and the ever handy pipe.
My condolences to Mary, Ben, Kate and Sarah-Jane. A life well lived.
On holidays, Bavaria after Damascus and before Egypt.
I was sitting on an airplane next to my now brother-in-law (then, basically a stranger) on our way to Papua New Guinea to meet Kate’s parents for the first time. I was already nervous when Ako began to tell me about Ric… ‘he’s mean, angry and judgemental, so keep your distance’’ It was obvious I had been set up when Ric greeted me with a kind warm welcome and showed nothing but openness towards me. Over the next couple weeks I had the privilege of watching a man display curiosity, great care, and humility mixed with confidence in what seemed
I was sitting on an airplane next to my now brother-in-law (then, basically a stranger) on our way to Papua New Guinea to meet Kate’s parents for the first time. I was already nervous when Ako began to tell me about Ric… ‘he’s mean, angry and judgemental, so keep your distance’’
It was obvious I had been set up when Ric greeted me with a kind warm welcome and showed nothing but openness towards me.
Over the next couple weeks I had the privilege of watching a man display curiosity, great care, and humility mixed with confidence in what seemed to me a harsh yet stunning environment. I knew I could have a lot to learn from him. I admired his calm, his common sense , his wealth of knowledge, his thirst for adventure, and most of all his acceptance.
Over the past 20 plus years he remained true to that first impression and I am so grateful for his love and support for my family. We’ll all miss that.
Ric was very fond of saying ‘ships were not built to stay in the harbour’ I find great truth and solace in that and I found great truth and solace in having Ric as a father-in-law and a Noi to our children. Rest peacefully Ric
Another of the many unsung heroes from "the year of '69". Rick and Marys' contributions to the many lives that they touched throughout the world has been enormous and a ...
Another of the many unsung heroes from "the year of '69". Rick and Marys' contributions to the many lives that they touched throughout the world has been enormous and a story worth telling. Our condolences go to Mary and family on behalf of myself and my wife Vee, as well as being the current convener of "the Year of '69" reunion committee.
We lost our friend and brother-in-law of over 50 years and are left with memories of the good times we have experienced with this knowledgeable, caring and loving man. His ...
We lost our friend and brother-in-law of over 50 years and are left with memories of the good times we have experienced with this knowledgeable, caring and loving man.
His quiet nature and ability to remain calm under any situation was a talent to be envied.
While the greater part of his working career was spent overseas caring for other people, at the crossroads of life, when retirement finally hit, we enjoyed several overseas adventures together.
His knowledge and discussion on world events and politics was always well informed and fair.
His love and care for family and friends was always evident.
We will remember Ric as a good example of how we should live.
Noi, dad, grand dad, special man loved by all., and especially me. I am missing you brother, father in law. I’ve known you since I was 14 - 46 almost ...
Noi, dad, grand dad, special man loved by all., and especially me. I am missing you brother, father in law. I’ve known you since I was 14 - 46 almost my second dad, I have experience so much life with you, travelling the world with you and family, from Vietnam for Ben’s wedding, then Canada for Kate's wedding family mooning, you visiting us in England then travelling all over UK… you were never far and you never will be you are in or hearts forever..
My Dear Mary and Family, Your phone call the other day shocked me to the core. While we both realized that Ric was ill we didn’t realize the seriousness of ...
My Dear Mary and Family,
Your phone call the other day shocked me to the core. While we both realized that Ric was ill we didn’t realize the seriousness of his predicament and in typical Ric style he didn’t give too much away. Carole and myself wish to offer you our condolences over your heart felt loss of your lifelong companion.
As you are aware we first met Ric in those formative years of our medical careers when we gravitated towards each other in our own little group within the faculty year. That group of half a dozen sustained that friendship for the rest of our lives. Partners were chosen and families were created and nurtured and life was lived. At times we drifted a bit as each of us did our own thing but there was always that underlying bond that kept us in touch. It has always amused me that it seems that these occasions are when we find out the more interesting details of what our companions actually got up to during the thirty to forty odd years since we first met. The recent so-called “retirement years” have once again drawn us together more closely as we wind down life’s adventure.
Before closing a few words about Ric. He was the quiet one in the group. Probably morally the best of us with a great thirst for knowledge and a seemingly magnetic attraction to libraries. Opinions were sincere and measured and he aways demonstrated a great sense of right and wrong. Quiet and unassuming he may have been but he was always ready to give his own considered opinion. He was never one to try and steal the limelight which leads me to his greatest attribute that of his stoic nature a feature of his personality that I find so admirable. Yet at the same time he demonstrated an outgoing nature and a thirst for adventure which resulted in working in the most unusual vocations and some geographically remote places around the world.
We will miss him terribly.
Vale Ric
John and I met Ric and Mary shortly after their return to Adelaide in 2005. Within a week of each other we joined the Seacombe Gardens Meditation Group. We met ...
John and I met Ric and Mary shortly after their return to Adelaide in 2005. Within a week of each other we joined the Seacombe Gardens Meditation Group. We met weekly, attended the Community Days and enjoyed when we met for meditation in one another's homes. Ric valued his meditation practice and he was a supportive member of the group. He was kind, considerate and thoughtful with a sense of humour that lurked under his quietness. We were sad to hear of his passing and we will miss seeing him at meditation and on our occasional meetings on Brighton beach. John and Rosie Hamilton
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