In Loving Memory of

Gerry Banham

28th September 1953 - 7th March 2026

Geraldine Mary Banham was born on September 28, 1953, at Bethlehem Hospital in Gardenvale to Thomas and Joan Grant.
She later met the love of her life, Peter Banham, and they married at age 27, building a loving family together and welcoming Rachel, Michael and Lauren.
Geraldine worked as an Activity Therapist, dedicating herself to caring for others.
5 years ago she moved from the family home in Davey street to her dream home in Bonbeach.
She became a proud grandmother, “Gezza” to Jackson in 2023 and Bailey Star in 2025.
Deeply loved by family and friends, Geraldine will be greatly missed and forever remembered.
We invite you to honour her by sharing a memory or reflection on the guest book link below.
To celebrate Geraldine’s vibrant and beautiful spirit, we invite guests to wear colour in her honour.

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Gez was such a beautiful part of my childhood. Everytime I came over to the banhams was greeted with a warm smile and a “how are you seh” such a warm beautiful caring lady. And so many of those beautiful qualities now live on in her gorgeous children. Surrounding you all in love for a beautiful lady that was such a gift to this earth. That kind of warmth and kindness is so rare and I was blessed to meet gez. Love to you all at this heartbreaking time. May she fly back to the stars effortlessly ♥️♥️

SK
Sarah Kenny Mar 18, 2026 07:46 AM

Gez was such a beautiful part of my childhood. Everytime I came over to the banhams was greeted with a warm smile and a “how are you seh” such a warm beautiful caring lady. And so many of those beautiful qualities now live on in her gorgeous children. Surrounding you all in love for a beautiful lady that was such a gift to this earth. That kind of warmth and kindness is so rare and I was blessed to meet gez. Love to you all at this heartbreaking time. May she fly back to the stars effortlessly ♥️♥️

SK
Sarah Kenny Mar 18, 2026 07:46 AM

My beautiful aunty Gezza, how lucky we were to have had you in our lives! Those sparkling mischief eyes, that phenomenal grin, that wicked laugh and the best hugs ever.
Every time I decide to go and have a little me time and stare off at a magical view and be reflective and grateful (drink in hand… maybe even a bundy) I’ll think of you.
You had limitless love for everyone and you and Pete have passed that down to my beautiful cuzzies.
Cheers to you Gezza, one more pelican in the sky, passing us by, reminding us how lucky we are to be in the Grant clan.
Love you so much, BJ

BD
Belinda Dean Mar 17, 2026 09:42 PM

Condolences to all the family on the very sad passing of my beautiful cousin Gerri. Fond memories of her trip to Perth in the early 70s and our last catch up in 2016.

MC
Mike Cosson Mar 17, 2026 09:24 PM

Gerry was a great human and loving mother to all her children and family. She would go beyond and out of her way for caring and sharing especially letting us boys feel like there house was ours even joining in sometimes and allowing us on the family holidays down at rye and up in Merimbula there were some great memories. You will be missed sadly Gerry by your family and friends lots of love to everyone. I’m sorry I cannot be there but we will meet again xoxo

SM
Sean Mcinerney Mar 17, 2026 04:06 PM

Gerry has been a delightful middle sister and the youngest in the Grant family until Toni and Phil arrived 5 and 6 years later. As such she was the baby girl, very pretty and a joy to me, Margie and Loretta. Mum dressed both Gerry and Loretta up like twins with dolly dresses, hair and later due to turned eyes requiring treatment get both had similar coke bottle looking glasses. I remember going into the eye hospital on the bus and train with Mum, Margie, Loret and Gerry a few times for their treatment.
One day on the bus from Sandringham, a handicapped man got on the bus with Gerry blurting out "look at that funny man Mum! What's wrong with him? This coming from the weirdest little girl and her sister o n the bus. Needless to say I melted into the seats in shame.
Gerry was always funny with a cheeky grin and always a smile. I loved her and will miss her dearly 💔

AG
Alan Grant Mar 17, 2026 10:58 AM

Dearest Banhams,

I shared this message with your beautiful Mother Gerry before she passed.

Dear Gerry,

Ever since I had the great fortune of meeting and falling in love with Rachel, I’ve known I’ve got a family down in Melbourne. I've always felt close to you through the beautiful stories Rachel has told, and of course , each time I visit Melbourne you have all been amazingly welcoming.

I am so sorry you are suffering. I’m sorry your family is losing you. These words seem too small. But I just wanted to reach out to you, however Insignificantly. 

Years ago, during a hard time, Rachel passed on advice she had received from you.  She told me that you say “never let anyone dim your light”.  This really hit home for me and I’ve always held it near.  Thank you, it got me through a very hard time and into a beautiful new life of love and happiness. 

Gerry,  I wish I could have spent more time in your presence. But I will always hold the most bright and beautiful image of your radiant smiling face and your kindness in my heart.  

I’m holding you all in my heart. I love you and your family.  Thank you for your impact on my life. Thank you for your incredible daughter, who is so much of her incredible mumma.

All of my love,

Meg

MC
Megan Chudleigh Mar 17, 2026 06:44 AM

So many people pass through our lives but few have the ability to touch it and you are one of those people
Goodbye my friend, forever in my heart

JW
Jeanne Walters Mar 16, 2026 10:23 PM

Funeral Service


Venue: Stratus Chapel - Bunurong Memorial Park
Date: Mar 18, 2026 11:30 AM
Location: 790 Frankston - Dandenong Rd, Dandenong South VIC 3175
Service details:

The service will begin at 11:30am. We kindly ask guests to arrive by 11am (30 minutes early) so that everyone can be seated before the service begins.

Parking:
Parking is available within Bunurong Memorial Park. Please follow the internal road signage to the Cumulus & Stratus Chapel car park. From the car park, it is a short walk to the Chapels, which are clearly signposted.

Dress:
In honour of Mum’s vibrant spirit, we kindly ask that guests please wear some colour to celebrate her life.

Wake:
Following the service, the wake will be held at Patterson River Golf Club at 1:30pm. There is ample parking available at the venue.
(Please note the function room is upstairs)

Charity Donation


If you’d like to donate to charity on behalf of Gerry and their family, they’ve suggested donating to the charity below.
Charity: Peninsula Home Hospice